Evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, yaln\u0131zca eli parmaklar\u0131 s\u00fcslemek i\u00e7in de\u011fil ayn\u0131 zamanda Antik M\u0131s\u0131rl\u0131lardan bu g\u00fcne\u00a0t\u00fcm nesiller i\u00e7in, sevgi ve sonsuzlu\u011fun sembol\u00fc olmu\u015ftur. Evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ortas\u0131ndaki bo\u015fluk, sevgiyi ayn\u0131 zaman gibi sonsuza g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek bir ge\u00e7idi simgelemektedir.<\/p>\n
Eski M\u0131s\u0131rl\u0131lar’\u0131n evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fckleri ve kollar\u0131na takt\u0131klar\u0131 bilezikleri, verimli Nil Nehri’nin yan\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcyen sazl\u0131klardan toplad\u0131klar\u0131 bitkilerle yap\u0131yorlad\u0131. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta bereketli Nil nehrinde yeti\u015fen bu sazlardan yap\u0131lan y\u00fcz\u00fck ve bileziklerin onlara evlilik hayatlar\u0131 boyunca bolluk ve bereket getirece\u011fine inan\u0131yorlard\u0131. Fakat zamanla bitkleren yap\u0131lan y\u00fcz\u00fckler yerini kemik, fildi\u015fi ve deri gibi sert malzemelerdenen yap\u0131lanlara b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n
M\u0131s\u0131rl\u0131lar, sol elinin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc parma\u011f\u0131ndaki damarlar\u0131n kalbe do\u011fru yol ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve bu damarlar\u0131n sevgi damar\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131. O zamanlarda, y\u00fcz\u00fckler manevi de\u011feri maddi de\u011ferine g\u00f6re daha fazlayd\u0131. S\u00fcslenmek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lan bir ziynet e\u015fyas\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ok sembolik anlam\u0131 olan bir tak\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n
M.\u00d6. 332’de B\u00fcy\u00fck \u0130skenderin ordular\u0131 M\u0131s\u0131r’\u0131 fethettikten sonra Roma’l\u0131lar “sevgi damar\u0131” ya da “veno amoris” kavram\u0131n\u0131 benimsemeye devam ettiler.\u00a0 Nihayetinde evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fckleri M\u0131s\u0131rl\u0131’lardan \u00fczerinde daha b\u00fcy\u00fck katk\u0131lar\u0131 ve \u00f6nemi olan Romal\u0131lara ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n
Romal\u0131larda gelinin gelece\u011fini damada ba\u011flaman\u0131n bir yolu ve sembol\u00fc olarak, gelinlere damad\u0131n ailesi taraf\u0131ndan demirden yap\u0131lan bir y\u00fcz\u00fck verilirdi. Evlili\u011fin a\u015fk birle\u015fmesinden daha fazla anla\u015fma \u00fczerine oldu\u011fu o g\u00fcnlerde, belki de di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerde halen uygulanmakta olan geline bir y\u00fcz\u00fck takma t\u00f6reni damat\u0131n \u015ferefine yap\u0131lan bir g\u00f6steri idi. Ayn\u0131 zamanda y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gelecekte evlili\u011fin bozmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlara kar\u015f\u0131 bu birlikteli\u011fi korudu\u011funa inan\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n
Paganlarda y\u00fcz\u00fck takman\u0131n, erke\u011fin, kad\u0131n\u0131n ruhunun egemenli\u011fi alt\u0131nda kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in onu ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131yordu. MS 200 y\u0131l\u0131nda ilk H\u0131ristiyanlar putperest adetlerinin \u00e7o\u011funu\u00a0reddettiyse de, Roma’da ni\u015fan ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde y\u00fcz\u00fck takma adeti devam etti. H\u0131ristiyanlara ait ni\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fckleri Roma d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki kal\u0131t mezarlarda bulundu. Bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn t\u00f6reninde bir y\u00fcz\u00fck takma adeti’in ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 ilk olarak d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n ba\u015flar\u0131nda olarak kaydedilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
Orta\u00e7a\u011f boyunca, alt\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fckler sonsuz sevginin en g\u00f6steri\u015fli simgesi olarak\u00a0demir y\u00fcz\u00fcklerin yerine ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n
1200’l\u00fc y\u0131llar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda, Papa\u00a0III. Innocent; \u00e7iflerin evlenme g\u00fcn\u00fcne kadar olan bekleme s\u00fcresince kendilerine dikkat etmeleri gerekti\u011fini belirterek ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k ad\u0131 verilen d\u00f6nemi bir adet haline getirdi. Bu durum, ni\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc’n\u00fcn ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir ihtiya\u00e7 yaratt\u0131. Ni\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 baz\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 da beraberinde getirdi. Evlilik vaadiyle kand\u0131r\u0131lma vakalar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falmaya ba\u015flay\u0131nca 1217’de Salisbury Piskoposu: “Hi\u00e7 kimse, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131 kand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in parmaklar\u0131na y\u00fcz\u00fck takmamal\u0131” diyerek konuya dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n
Puritanlar, 1500’l\u00fc y\u0131llarda m\u00fccevherlerin materyalist ve anlams\u0131z oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kavram\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131lar. Bunun yerine, \u00e7iftler evliliklerinde daha pratik ve kullan\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olan g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde diki\u015f y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne benzeyen wedding thimbles kulland\u0131lar.<\/p>\n
\u0130ngiltere Kral\u0131 Edward VI’n\u0131n resmi olarak elin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc parma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 “y\u00fcz\u00fck parma\u011f\u0131” olarak ilan etti. 1549 y\u0131l\u0131nda yay\u0131nlanan papazlar\u0131n dua kitab\u0131 “Book of Common Prayer” da sol elin\u00a0 “evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn tak\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 el” olarak belirtilmesi ile evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fckleri sol ele tak\u0131lmaya ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/p>\n
1840’da Krali\u00e7e Victoria ve Prens Albert, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcnde, krali\u00e7enin profiliyle i\u015flenmi\u015f alt\u0131 d\u00fczine y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc misafirlerine da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131.<\/p>\n
II. D\u00fcnya Sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda pek \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 asker sevgililerinden ayr\u0131l\u0131rken birbirlerine y\u00fcz\u00fck hediye ederek birbirlerine s\u00f6z verdiler. B\u00f6ylece y\u00fcz\u00fck uzun ayr\u0131l\u0131klar s\u0131ras\u0131nda sevenlerin birbirlerini hat\u0131rlamas\u0131 ve unutmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir sembol haline geldi.<\/p>\n
2000 y\u0131l\u0131nda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck alt\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Suudi Arabistan’da \u00fcretilmi\u015ftir. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc 56 kilogram\u0131n \u00fczerinde alt\u0131ndan yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\u00a0Bug\u00fcn, ni\u015fan ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fckleri servet, g\u00fc\u00e7, sahiplenme, sevgi ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k gibi \u015feylerin sembol\u00fc olarak eski geleneklerin bir kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 temsil etmektedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0130lk evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kim takt\u0131? Y\u00fcz\u00fck takma adeti nereden geliyor? Evlilik y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, yaln\u0131zca eli parmaklar\u0131 s\u00fcslemek i\u00e7in de\u011fil ayn\u0131 zamanda Antik M\u0131s\u0131rl\u0131lardan bu g\u00fcne\u00a0t\u00fcm nesiller i\u00e7in, sevgi ve sonsuzlu\u011fun sembol\u00fc…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8962,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[3099],"class_list":["post-8617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moda","tag-yuzuk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8617"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8617"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8617\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8963,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8617\/revisions\/8963"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8962"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ilkkimbuldu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}